Salam Alaikum sisters🌸 Hope you all doing well. Welcome new sisters to the group ❤️ I’ll repeat yesterday’s information for new sisters after this message.
And today I would like to do short reminder about CHILDREN’S STRONG EMOTIONS and RELATION IMPORTANCE.
A child's emotions regulation begins with OUR emotions regulation and cannot be the other way around.
THIS REMINDER, which I remind myself very often, should keep in mind each parent. If a child kicks, fights, screams and he/ she is in tantrum- he/ she is already under a lot of stress and screaming back, rejection, throwing your other emotions, blaming a child and trying to control will not help him/ her to regulate himself. If a child suppresses his emotions/feelings they will remain inside and will have a huge negative impact to all his body and future life. Suppressed emotions won’t disappear in the air, nor child will calm himself.
I believe everyone faced with a child's difficult behavior, some of you more, some less... But if you focus only on the behavior and its control, there is a high probability that you will not see child's needs, you will not see his/ her difficulties and you will only become even more distant from each other.
I’m trying my best to stress important words in CAPITAL LETTERS, so don’t take it as a shouting.