Salam Alaikum sisters. 🌸Hope your start of New Year was good and you are doing well.
Each of us want to be happy, healthy, wealthy and loved. Today about HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF OR HOW TO MAKE YOUR SPOUSE TO LOVE YOU.
Men argued: what does the most beautiful woman look like? One likes green eyes, another gray with a depth of blue, and the third brown, smiling eyes. The fourth one likes short hair, the other one likes long... One liked calm and house woman, another - goal-oriented, a third - mysterious and unpredictable, a fourth - a risky woman which you would never be bored... One admires tall, the other small and beautiful…And to everyone, their point of view seemed the only correct one. All efforts to talk to each other led nowhere. Then they decided to go to the old wise man who had tasted life and asked: - We have argued and we cannot find the truth... Tell us, please, which woman is the most beautiful? The old man looked at the blue mountain peak and the clouds and then he answered with a smile: - Beloved one...
Today, I just wanted to remind you that the love of others for us begins with our love for ourselves, the men who are around only show us our own relationship with ourselves... Love yourself and the whole world will be forced to love you 😊
Sooo many articles and books are written how to love yourself and about self development. Unfortunately most of us choosing others first, loving others first, caring about others first. We all are “trained” to be “good girls” and neglect ourselves, our feelings, our emotions and fit into the frame 🖼️ of expectations. Because if you be “a good girl”your spouse will love you, your kids will be happy and good, parents satisfied and colleagues at work will like you.
Everyone seems need to be happy to have a “good girl” mom, wife, daughter… Unfortunately not. And the most unsatisfied person is “a good girl”.
I can see so beautiful women from inside out who are not valuing themselves. I’m hearing so many women scolding themselves and having strong internal critic who not allowing them to be themselves. And I know that that internal criticism is not theirs. And most of them admitting they are not living their own life, they are not having internal satisfaction and happiness.
So for those who are not happy about themselves and would like to grow and rediscover yourself again and take actions as an adult to change situation, I’ll write information about it. And my next few messages will be about how to grow up again and take a responsibility about ourselves.
As everyone is capable to do that right now, I’m inviting to rethink your own situation and grow up to the woman you would like to be.❤️