Salam Alaikum sisters🌸 How’s your morning?
Many parents asking but how to make relation with children if they are not talking? How to connect?
Answer is simple. Start from small steps. And remember, for the relation are responsible parents, not children.
We have every moment to connect! 💗
The most important thing is to be in the present, don't run/ rush in your mind to the past or the future, don't constantly check your phone (if you need to check, tell your child: "I'll make a note of what I need to buy in the store for a while" and then honestly put the phone aside), don't turn the TV in the background, especially while you're eating together, both for communication and connection, as well as for awareness when eating - this is an important skill for life.
After nursery or school, let your child relax in peace and be quiet. Rest and talk about children day when they are ready.
Take the time to really be with another person, it meets many human needs, builds the foundation of a relationship, and the child will no longer have to test so hard and keep asking through his (often difficult) behavior: do you love me? Do you see me? Can you hear me and understand me?
What helps you bond with your children?Maybe you have your own daily rituals?