This week’s post and reminder:🌸
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Survival strategies formed in childhood remain in adults, even when they no longer serve us, even when we are not 4 years old anymore. If you actually stop and look around and feel how you are feeling after strong emotional reactions, you’ll probably see that you’re feeling same when you were 2, 6 or 9 years old. Unintegrated childhood feelings and memories raising in the present and we react. Children activating what we have been suppressing inside, and their active expression of opinion moves the whole hurricane of feelings in us and the children often becoming the target of it.
It’s going from generation to generation.
You can start changing all these patterns by turning to yourself. Remember parents are always responsible for the relationship with children.
Not kids need to change. This we need to do❤️
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