Salam Alaikum, Dear Brothers and Sisters,
Hope you all are feeling well today.

Today I invite you to take a step, not just toward peace, but toward understanding each other again.

Whatever tension, frustration, or distance may be between you, let it end today. Not by force, not by pride, but by willingness. Willingness to listen. To soften. To care again, not with the ego, but with the heart.

Yes, the task may sound simple, even childish at first glance, but that’s only if you look with the mind that says, “She won’t change anyway,” or “He never listens.”
Ask yourself: How do you know, if you’ve never truly tried? And if you did try, was it with full presence and honesty ? Or were you only protecting yourself from disappointment?

📝 The Task What Doing Miracles : “What does my ideal relationship look and feel like?

Sit down together. With respect. With presence.
Each of you writes the answer to this simple, powerful question: “What does my ideal relationship look and feel like?”
Write:
✅What makes you feel loved?
✅What actions bring you peace?
✅What words do you need to hear?
✅What gestures should be done by your spouse?

Examples:
• “I want you to hug me when I come home.”
• “I want you to stop scrolling when I speak.”
• “I want to be thanked when I give you food.”
• “I want you stop using silence as punishment.”

🤝 Then, Listen.

Read your list to each other, one at a time.
When your spouse speaks, you say nothing except:

“Thank you. I hear you.”

Don’t argue. Don’t defend or try to prove. Just receive the message from your spouse.

And all this week start playing it out. Do exactly what each of you want. Not pretending - practicing.

For the next 7 days:

✅Show up with presence, patience, and real effort and watch what happens when love is no longer assumed but chosen, again and again.

Remember, all your wishes and desires should align with the Islamic perspective.

💬 To those who still doubt and thinks it’s simple ask yourself:

If I truly want love, peace, and harmony, am I willing to try something different today?

Blaming is easy, but listening is hard, yet everything changes when you speak openly, honestly, and care for each other through your actions.

For those who are single, this is the perfect time to focus on yourself, grow, and prepare for the love you deserve. Ask yourself, ‘What does my ideal relationship look and feel like, and what do I truly want from my spouse?’ Close your eyes, dream it in detail, and let that vision guide you. May Allah SWT bless you with a righteous spouse

🌙 May Allah SWT soften our hearts, remove our pride, and fill our homes with rahma, sakinah, and barakah.

Ameen.🤲🏻