Salam Alaikum sisters. How are you feeling this Sunday? 🌸
Today short R.E.M.I.N.D.E.R about COMMUNICATION with babies.
No need to rush.
No need to run to save baby from cry.
No need to say "don't cry". Shhhh…
Because baby communicates. He/she is sharing. “Speaking”.
And communication does not need to be stopped. There is no need to react to it emotionally.
It needs to be answered. 💗
Slow down, stay calm, observe, respond.
Sometimes you won't know what exactly it is, look for it calmly.
Sometimes you won't be able to help relieve the pain imediately, but you can be here and now, with your child's pain.
And a bonus reminder: the child does not use the mother instead of pacifier. The child does not manipulate by crying.
The pacifier was designed to replace the mother, not the other way around. And of course warmth, connection, closeness and heartbeat will never be replaced. A baby's desire to be around is natural and important .🌸
Those who want more to know words power, how to communicate with older kids, teenagers and adults, how important is to listen and how is important your body language I’m inviting you to watch this speech. https://youtu.be/9gFji1XP8Uk?si=SywhmRH2m4ujb8lG
But not only to watch, but also to question yourself, notice and think how you usually communicating and responding to your kids and other people, what you would like to improve in your communication? What communication skills you want to pass to your children?
Have a peaceful Sunday❤️